Life throws adventures at us that we do not choose for ourselves. I wish I could choose my own adventure, and while that is possible I do not get to choose them all. Now I am starting the adventure of recovering from my second blood clot before the age of 40.
I now have to change from the woman who was planning to walk a half marathon, to the woman that is planning to walk around the block again some day. I can't do that yet, I can walk to the mailbox though. I can go a little farther even. I am learning my limits, and I hate it. Tell me what not to do and I ask why, if I don't like your reasons I push back. I don't like the reason I can't walk like I used to and I really want to push back. I know that would be bad though so I am trying not to. I am working with my doctors and my nutritionist and I will get better. I want to try to log my progress here with this forum. I have heard many stories of people starting a blog and changing their lives. I want to change my life. I have gained and lost so much weight and if you ask me how I did it, or what I ate, I couldn't tell you. I hope that by logging it here I will be able to look through my past and remember the lessons I learned so that I will not have to keep re-learning them.
My lessons I remember for now.
1. Nobody is going to steal your food, so you can take your time eating it. - I tend to buy myself healthy snacks and then polish off the whole box like I am afraid if I don't get them all down they will be gone. I think this is due to the fact that I have "purged" the kitchen of snacks out of my kitchen before. I am not going to do that to myself again, so I can chill.
2. Only eat when you are hungry. - Ever since I was a small child I thought there would be severe consequences when you skipped a meal. I don't know what I thought those consequences were but they would be bad. I have learned that I can, and at times should, skip a meal and that nothing bad will happen to me.
3. Take it a step at a time. - Just move! You don't have to walk around the world for it to be worth taking a walk. Sometimes just walking to the mailbox is enough.
Oh my gosh, I'm like that too. If I were a dog, I'd have to wear a training collar around the food dish! Great writing...look forward to more!
ReplyDeleteIt sounds like you have a fantastic attitude despite the situation you're in. Keep on pushing through - it sure sounds like you'll be successful!
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